Saturday, April 23, 2005

silly title

been procrastinating from my blogging.cuz didn't get the chance to use the com for many days.mum has to rush her work so have to let her use.

hmm...anger is such a fatal thing.it often controls us instead of us controlling it.very rarely do we find someone hu can actually take a deep breath and then dismiss his/her anger.ppl ard us all submit to their anger when it comes.anger is indeed fatal because,if lashed out without second tots,can lead to strained relationships and hurts.if a person is angry and he/she lashes out without thinking of other ppl's feelings,the person,having vented his/her anger,will feel alot better.but for the other party,they suffer.sometimes we only think of venting out our anger but we fail to realise that we have been venting our anger on other ppl and have thus hurt other ppl.many of us nvr realise dis point.is dis human nature or wad? if only there is no such thing as anger.i bet the world will b such a lovely place to live in.if only ppl can love each other in a greater measure,there'd b peace all ard.but too bad it isn't so.

we have expectations and thus,we are often greatly hurt when ppl we meet dun measure up to our expectations.dis will lead to great disappointments.however,isn't it great if we dun impose expectations on the ppl ard us and just love everyone for hu we are? isn't dat better? human beings are extremely complicated creatures.we think too profoundly and so there are alot of political stuff in our everyday lives.ppl contradict one another,or even themselves.life is such a complicated network of situations.often we are selfish but we do not realise.if we think carefully,i bet not one person will dare to admit dat he/she has not been selfish.

we as humans are prone to jealousy.when we feel dat we are being treated biasly against,we seeth with jealousy.y does dis happen? perhaps it's just simply becuz ppl nowadays are really bias and practise favouratism too much dat ppl nvr realise they are doing so! perhaps favouratism is so common in our everday lives,it has become so much a part of us,dat we dun see it as an issue to address anymore but something dat is basic! of cuz,we tend to b warm and friendly to ppl we lyk and to ppl hu reach our expectations.it is easy for us to neglect those ppl hu are not "our kind" of ppl.i guess dis is the reason y ppl are nvr happy anymore dis days.

everyone of us makes mistakes.nobody is perfect.in order to b happy,we just have to accept certain things we cannot change.dats the lesson we need to learn in life.

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